WEBVTT 00:09.040 --> 00:12.670 So we'll have you versus I mean just a year lehman and four. 00:13.940 --> 00:19.660 Tyson dexter to the AC wine. You know I can see it's she are. 00:20.630 --> 00:21.630 It was her job. 00:22.450 --> 00:25.270 And that's when the family within this the purpose of time with 00:25.270 --> 00:26.700 the Oklahoma national parks. 00:27.800 --> 00:28.610 Those that john. 00:30.280 --> 00:34.530 That to them time and working with volunteers family readiness 00:34.530 --> 00:40.060 periods the in ensuring that he commands the system with their 00:40.060 --> 00:41.690 family readiness program was. 00:42.410 --> 00:45.630 And yet the state level. We hope that it sound. 00:46.230 --> 00:48.440 So it can tell us a lot different. 00:50.270 --> 00:51.900 I that the law volunteers. 00:53.110 --> 00:53.560 That can make. 00:54.300 --> 00:56.240 It. So what are we doing it. 00:56.960 --> 01:00.030 So the mission within that was one of the put pieces of the pie. 01:00.070 --> 01:03.020 He won the state it like that and the commanders reading this 01:03.020 --> 01:07.840 program for the service members in that would include to Stanley's. 01:08.380 --> 01:12.670 This person and the pies that we've been program and it insurers 01:12.700 --> 01:17.010 that families and the service members of the resources available 01:17.010 --> 01:18.730 to them after a deployment. 01:19.370 --> 01:23.210 Um we have um at 36 and nine days after they can back me up some 01:23.210 --> 01:25.620 hats them accordingly even during the the point that. 01:26.120 --> 01:29.270 So dependent on what the things of that the planet soccer loses. 01:29.680 --> 01:32.630 We would depend on what type of bring fiends and information 01:32.630 --> 01:35.710 that we set out where we switches that we bring in for the. Families. 01:37.460 --> 01:40.230 And with which the dealers are we city. 01:41.560 --> 01:46.050 This is the succeed them up and I believe the one took some from 01:46.050 --> 01:47.710 the one 80 and here today. 01:48.260 --> 01:49.220 Could be its people. 01:50.400 --> 01:54.070 And he said that the families are here to work. That's why are they. 01:55.280 --> 01:58.660 We're here because we need the information to says batches of 01:58.660 --> 01:59.520 service members. 02:00.680 --> 02:04.780 The as the happen this time to have a special guest thinker and 02:04.780 --> 02:06.670 she brings and um. 02:07.510 --> 02:10.840 I can't wait to teach them. How the Journal and teaches them 02:10.870 --> 02:14.210 to always talking that there's two of their Sever Swaim and with 02:14.210 --> 02:17.560 it should a family member weathers terse rouse teaching than 02:17.560 --> 02:19.290 that you know you need to keep talking to. 02:19.850 --> 02:23.160 So depending on what kinds of korean which were at the 90 day 02:23.190 --> 02:24.590 with six of excuse me. 02:25.820 --> 02:26.790 Those are getting harder. 02:27.710 --> 02:30.960 And a honeymoon period might be up for more start to see a lot 02:30.960 --> 02:34.590 of to she scammed out so we can address those and I'm like jeff 02:34.590 --> 02:38.010 sessions which will happen tomorrow and this figure that we have 02:38.010 --> 02:41.250 the most of the big I spy care is going to make the like that 02:41.250 --> 02:43.950 some of those walls and maybe didn't didn't start to think maybe 02:43.950 --> 02:46.580 at the need to get to with the application class. 02:47.220 --> 02:50.650 Yeah do to get to anger management class get some start thinking 02:50.650 --> 02:53.830 about that what's going on in them by the that's relevant to 02:53.830 --> 02:57.010 the family member as much as to do is to of that something that 02:57.050 --> 02:57.640 we have to. 02:59.630 --> 03:01.560 And it's been rubella important. 03:02.180 --> 03:04.990 That sometimes for that picture seven years for that service 03:04.990 --> 03:07.800 members sometimes it to me that because of the gonna be here 03:08.050 --> 03:10.720 because you know the bumper while that they're tired. 03:11.630 --> 03:14.610 I have a service member stanley senior sometimes that will help 03:14.610 --> 03:16.730 and maybe not to talk to me today. 03:17.360 --> 03:19.390 Some more down the line that that's I remember when. 03:20.460 --> 03:23.700 We're sudden there. What's what's happened that resource of the 03:23.750 --> 03:27.640 city region like wind like he's here's the icebreaker. Stood. 03:30.350 --> 03:31.280 It's mostly out. 03:31.830 --> 03:34.340 Like. I E quote we get. 03:34.970 --> 03:35.450 This this guy. 03:36.260 --> 03:39.810 I'm here with me up so just and out and that we would pay that 03:39.810 --> 03:40.550 what we wanted to. 03:41.210 --> 03:45.490 And at who um I was with the sun UNICEF pm. 03:46.220 --> 03:51.040 Contacting. The content and we're lacking the magic was unable 03:51.040 --> 03:53.360 to get that contact with. 03:53.930 --> 03:56.390 Him. After seeing his video. 03:57.080 --> 03:58.240 See how it is. 03:59.240 --> 04:00.630 And wasn't sold talking. 04:01.640 --> 04:02.420 He's a good spell. 04:03.260 --> 04:07.010 What's the Kansas me the usually perceptions from everyone I'm 04:07.010 --> 04:10.280 it's just not from service members viewpoint men have some some. 04:10.820 --> 04:14.080 When I watch family member subic important service member of that. 04:14.600 --> 04:19.130 Baskets from apparent exit from the for him a wide for the brother. 04:19.730 --> 04:23.920 It touches everybody the NFL and see you just put the food from 04:23.920 --> 04:27.950 all sides and we do to see each other's from Kuwait smooth to 04:27.950 --> 04:31.490 know how our service members lived ever that helps a family member 04:31.490 --> 04:35.330 understand why the not sleeping over here because the conditions 04:35.330 --> 04:35.960 are different. 04:36.470 --> 04:41.130 And the fact that is the played by it's no even than that of 04:41.130 --> 04:44.700 that Sydney would be met with those are the in that and it's 04:44.700 --> 04:50.110 quite but the every GOP Sawan basic change coming over here to 04:50.150 --> 04:51.240 tell mom with them. 04:51.860 --> 04:55.930 That's going to be a we talked about the pain and for about saying. 04:56.600 --> 05:00.380 Yeah. Another one to I was really when absence with a like times. 05:01.040 --> 05:04.810 Yeah I did you ever wide and Slim hopes that his and daughter 05:04.840 --> 05:07.240 I can't believe with me since I have to it when I go home with 05:07.240 --> 05:11.200 teach tests me and that and that's are centers to pursue know 05:11.230 --> 05:15.230 that you're not the only one six to see you in on an won't and 05:15.230 --> 05:18.290 the things which are going to turn this to plan face that's an 05:18.290 --> 05:21.220 important but that limits that they've and all the while. 05:22.250 --> 05:25.060 The same goes for the family member set they're not alone but 05:25.060 --> 05:28.070 not no one wants its hats with snide some not the only one to 05:28.100 --> 05:29.690 our game with the family members. 05:30.260 --> 05:33.140 I'm not the only ones that so that looks connection. 05:33.710 --> 05:35.950 But it's a win for the people. 05:36.470 --> 05:37.810 And for that same when right now. 05:40.040 --> 05:42.340 What will do that so long to really. 05:42.930 --> 05:46.930 Be 2000 and seven. I came in and that of and I'm so. 05:47.840 --> 05:48.390 You see. 05:49.130 --> 05:52.930 It was great to meal of a change in the into it. 05:54.230 --> 05:56.960 I've been listening to the some swinburne the famous better. 05:57.470 --> 06:00.110 And because a fish can now in such a new program. 06:00.760 --> 06:03.890 Had no idea what will working with me just say that this is that women. 06:05.030 --> 06:09.000 A good time because I I was the first time and I bc deplete was 06:09.000 --> 06:11.210 the first time. I've never had Taylor band. 06:12.100 --> 06:15.170 The best I mean I don't think we met people's needs. 06:15.830 --> 06:16.910 This time only found. 06:17.490 --> 06:20.390 Wouldn't it to the yellow ribbon cycle and we started to sing 06:20.420 --> 06:26.530 and So the paid to to to the ups and downs and and looking and 06:26.790 --> 06:29.740 that the the toe during the different says that the cycle. 06:30.410 --> 06:33.260 Decided to know was summoned to the service member cement themselves. 06:33.260 --> 06:37.220 Another set of the time and so I think that was one of them from 06:37.220 --> 06:38.680 the come for the first thing care. 06:39.590 --> 06:43.490 As the tide and thinking about that at its adobe napac point 06:43.560 --> 06:45.300 that watched a movie have different is that. 06:46.070 --> 06:49.440 And that's to turn the food and the talking that now that had 06:49.440 --> 06:53.260 a job on the top to people that has a happening it like the within 06:53.260 --> 06:56.520 the dance. It didn't happen about last six today with the IDC 06:56.520 --> 06:58.210 tea to three years ago. 06:58.900 --> 07:01.980 And to see the service member food for the movement and why we 07:01.980 --> 07:03.890 learned that that tells me. 07:04.430 --> 07:08.710 We're making progress I'm talking to lot military like consulted 07:08.810 --> 07:10.550 with the coaches and products. 07:11.900 --> 07:15.070 Said you know the town that's the wrong soften pick them up. 07:15.800 --> 07:16.690 This movie. 07:17.290 --> 07:20.750 To go home and that people here in the U.S and the and sessions 07:20.750 --> 07:24.020 down the it wither for backed. Once. I remember wh and doing 07:24.020 --> 07:27.880 the top they have a that make you feel so better so much easier 07:27.880 --> 07:29.670 because compression and opened up more. 07:30.290 --> 07:32.840 That is the reason for this I can set now. 07:33.590 --> 07:35.950 It shows that pete todner to. 07:36.510 --> 07:38.870 Talk about issues in the thing that we're living your life at 07:38.870 --> 07:41.970 the time when you are on the to hell figure. 07:42.500 --> 07:46.690 It's so sick of in your family is my lifestyle. So you know to 07:46.690 --> 07:50.040 to everyone talking then and not to happen. She dynamic keep 07:50.040 --> 07:52.960 it contained was one of things that would have put this time. 07:53.620 --> 07:56.150 So that's the reason why we use without of Oxford. 07:56.810 --> 07:59.590 Okay. I didn't like subtle. 08:00.210 --> 08:02.190 And The stuff. 08:02.750 --> 08:04.810 Very Yes. 08:05.720 --> 08:06.850 Insisted he was you. 08:07.470 --> 08:08.010 Can be with you. 08:09.360 --> 08:10.290 And for them. 08:11.040 --> 08:14.880 I can see my fans in this movie and a fantastic time. I've gotten 08:14.880 --> 08:16.430 some than out of every one of them. 08:17.100 --> 08:21.560 When the shooting one time and I'm good to me was that so for 08:21.560 --> 08:24.490 fast and he's ptolemy thing sounds like you've never to win the 08:24.490 --> 08:28.160 effect on that with that is relevant to ask about when that extends 08:28.160 --> 08:30.000 no I don't know some came home. 08:30.670 --> 08:33.810 Yeah thats them off to commit even after several years. 08:34.450 --> 08:38.070 And for my kids it helps many to believe that it really helps 08:38.070 --> 08:39.650 me understand why they came from them. 08:40.550 --> 08:43.600 I wouldn't struggling immigrants over there. But what I wanted 08:43.980 --> 08:44.590 the struggle. 08:45.410 --> 08:49.520 And and hopefully then olives that have because that this no 08:49.520 --> 08:52.700 one might have action comes home. I would be in a better position 08:52.700 --> 08:56.540 to help him you know java side as the moment have the understanding 08:56.540 --> 08:57.460 regime the house. 08:59.060 --> 09:01.640 Yeah. We're here to love. 09:02.420 --> 09:04.200 Personally just doddle. 09:04.850 --> 09:07.670 That's Situation a son. 09:08.390 --> 09:10.410 You see the that they were virtually certain. 09:11.080 --> 09:12.180 Families sorry no no. 09:12.730 --> 09:17.520 Better. Start to see that that it takes time that I think the 09:17.520 --> 09:20.130 resources this time where you that would many with together for 09:20.130 --> 09:21.300 them to the point. 09:22.240 --> 09:26.380 Just because we increased our that it's such a and with system 09:26.380 --> 09:29.460 special of the building creams and they're making phone calls. 09:29.960 --> 09:32.750 A lot of family rating the scripts going out and again this is 09:32.750 --> 09:35.210 a either that commanders family readiness program. 09:35.900 --> 09:38.840 On top of that we would then combined with all those different 09:38.840 --> 09:41.070 programs with their military what consulted. 09:41.600 --> 09:42.710 Within the and 09:44.070 --> 09:47.230 Head of the programs are just in place and now we have seen them 09:47.230 --> 09:49.870 reach that at this time than we ever have. 09:50.560 --> 09:53.350 They're still issues out there but now was from a better place 09:53.350 --> 09:56.420 to help them what we were before. Good. 09:57.560 --> 10:01.180 Had. You see this feeling should we get really another. 10:02.090 --> 10:02.700 Art in it. 10:03.250 --> 10:04.930 We're going to lean it's all the time. 10:05.940 --> 10:09.430 How do you see this whole thing a small you start it's in the future. 10:10.730 --> 10:13.510 And the I wouldn't and I think that we have affected and this 10:13.510 --> 10:17.710 one like I'm like we we got this for the other ones that are 10:17.710 --> 10:20.750 coming back. We have to give them something and I love that every 10:20.750 --> 10:21.670 time because. 10:22.610 --> 10:25.550 And that for the first time and say for example you have a for 10:25.550 --> 10:29.180 your all that to to put a few years them one man outside them. 10:29.180 --> 10:33.320 I have a different way into the mansion in the front every doing 10:33.640 --> 10:36.720 the you might be a relationship of the wrong good things to Camden 10:36.720 --> 10:38.450 that's been the so I think you know. 10:39.030 --> 10:42.170 That's the members have to take away from the show with them 10:42.170 --> 10:45.550 process that we've done this time is that everything's we have 10:45.550 --> 10:48.500 to come up with something that is just as rather than. 10:49.070 --> 10:53.040 And it was just as that that that would insist on this today 10:53.040 --> 10:57.800 and to everyone in that particular cycle. We can take you catherin anything. 10:58.300 --> 11:01.210 I don't feel like we can anyone any good only do the cooking qadir. 11:02.300 --> 11:05.440 And we really tried pride family preference has to get away from 11:05.440 --> 11:09.080 that and to make that pain and witchell in well. 11:09.640 --> 11:11.580 To meet individual meets the best that we can. 11:12.430 --> 11:13.350 Like everyone happy. 11:14.180 --> 11:14.720 The to me. 11:15.260 --> 11:19.680 And she for him though time to me the most people say. 11:20.440 --> 11:23.130 That no he became very. 11:23.750 --> 11:25.030 So lets me like that. 11:25.790 --> 11:29.620 Us. From there's the basic things that we have the day that and 11:30.020 --> 11:32.340 most of the guidelines are certain things were kept a person 11:32.340 --> 11:35.920 at a beach one of them that if we had to pass this on than the 11:35.920 --> 11:38.580 from one lesson that we've learned is that the every. 11:39.290 --> 11:43.460 In unit with the with uh. Yeah right to vote for you listen to 11:43.460 --> 11:47.130 that that commands have to say I listened to at the seven summit 11:47.130 --> 11:50.130 which are saying in an impact that the and members in that on 11:50.130 --> 11:54.020 it and together with that information come up with a really good 11:54.020 --> 11:55.130 never from. Program. 11:57.680 --> 12:00.350 Uh it's just to other States. Right.. Oh. 12:02.780 --> 12:08.470 Oh. Post-independence something like that the cast. 12:09.310 --> 12:12.100 They said that some point you have to try something different. 12:13.040 --> 12:17.660 No we can ever offered hope of to classes today that that 90 days. 12:17.750 --> 12:21.250 She we can and the answer can mean that people are shutting down 12:21.250 --> 12:25.020 on the emotions and with the drinking we since are scanning that 12:25.020 --> 12:26.670 sometimes you have to do said that one. 12:27.350 --> 12:31.260 Put with the Nobel committee get people go to start responding 12:31.260 --> 12:35.350 to the me to become happier and I'm thinking that that was that 12:35.350 --> 12:39.050 in the rough way nobody will got their attention and listen to. 12:39.950 --> 12:43.260 And because he's who we are one that that in fact that it really 12:43.290 --> 12:46.980 the issue. So sexy with the red now there's that continuity after 12:46.980 --> 12:47.490 she was. 12:48.140 --> 12:51.960 Um session today when when we have sessions to know in the we 12:51.960 --> 12:53.240 for back to dance. 12:53.840 --> 12:55.210 And the entire everything. 12:55.210 --> 12:59.260 Yeah. And so I think the real just you know I think everyone 12:59.260 --> 13:02.290 and that should look about model and say what did they do different 13:02.290 --> 13:03.830 that might the success of this time. 13:04.340 --> 13:06.790 Because I can television that look at the site minute to dying. 13:07.370 --> 13:09.910 The knife set three years ago at the last the point that. 13:11.190 --> 13:12.900 I four o'clock and you can. 13:13.940 --> 13:16.620 That that they're staying in the ones that need help with that 13:16.620 --> 13:18.910 they're interested bursting and in their in their and their get 13:18.910 --> 13:21.100 one thing and that's what's important. 13:23.110 --> 13:26.770 No. Recent it up to a..